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Social Skill
Chief:
^yeah man thats similar to me...
theres also communications courses you could take if you feel you need to improve on your shit.
AndrE16686:
i think talking with many different people helps you adapt and broadens your social skills. Being forced to engage in conversation with people you would usually avoid is good too.
The-Leak (aka) kingwell (bka) JULES:
Read up on "Social Anxiety". The only way to get better at social skill is to engage (practice) it.
QuietTruth:
Propz to ALL Ya'll!!!
The thing that I don't get is if you can't force 'it' than how are you supposed to break out that shell?
Becuz for me I gotta force myself, ya know?
And I can't help it. It's like I don't want to be this way but I just can't fuckin' help it. There's nuthin' I can do.
Its kinda like what MTL's Most was sayin'. I am comfortable around the people that I'm always around but when I'm out of that environment it's like fuckin' crickets.
The funny thing is, is that I was never ever this way before now its just all the sudden.
How can a person even lose social skill ya know?
I don't know man, ya'll posting some good shit though!
The-Leak (aka) kingwell (bka) JULES:
--- Quote from: QuietTruth on December 08, 2006, 12:13:25 PM ---Propz to ALL Ya'll!!!
The thing that I don't get is if you can't force 'it' than how are you supposed to break out that shell?
Some people never get over it, just accept it is part of their personality
Becuz for me I gotta force myself, ya know?
That is good, don't allow it to control you.
And I can't help it. It's like I don't want to be this way but I just can't fuckin' help it. There's nuthin' I can do.
Having a few drinks (don't get into alcoholism), or medication even; can help if it is that bad.
Its kinda like what MTL's Most was sayin'. I am comfortable around the people that I'm always around but when I'm out of that environment it's like fuckin' crickets.
Maybe you are scared of the unpredictable, you already know how your friends will act, and what they will say. What they expect of you.
The funny thing is, is that I was never ever this way before now its just all the sudden.
Often, there is a moment that will see it off, a breakdown, or a transition in your life...
How can a person even lose social skill ya know?
You can develop mental illness which could impair your social skill, not being around people lots isolates you from being social, thus you forget your skills.
I don't know man, ya'll posting some good shit though!
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Lots of people are the internet are like this, and it's a trap. They come on here because of it, but then it is just making it worse...
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