It's May 13, 2024, 01:18:10 AM
what I'm about to tell you is from personal experience and I'm going through right now:don't think about her doing it with the other guy (yes i still say doing it lol).the more u think about it, the more depressed you will get and the more it'll hurt you.if you're wondering why she did it with some other guy and not with you, well there probably isn't an answer she'll give you for that.maybe she respected you or something; maybe she got scared that you'd do the same thing as the first guy; or maybe she just wasn't thinking at all.now whatever the reason is, don't dwell on that; think for the present and future, not the past.and finally if you're wondering you're a second choice or not, take a look at where you guys are.if she's with you right now, be happy with it and count your blessings; however at the same time also be careful and be aware on the way she communicates with other guys and whatever; don't make it very obvious and control your anger when you do it.and if you still feel you're a second choice or you discover that she's only with you right now cause there is nobody elsse or whatever, you should break it off.you've been with her for a couple of months and stuff; i understand the feelings are strong and whatever.but it will be easier to get over her since it's two months; think how hard it'll be if it goes on for 2 years and then she ends up leaving you because you are the second choice and what not.that's the same shit im going thru right now where i can't move forward for whatever reason and i'll tell you that you will become very very angry and bitterso overall this is what i say. forget the past, you can't change it now; focus on the present and future.if she's happy with you, stay with her and whatever happens will happen.if you are certain you are only a second choice, then and ONLY then leave her and move on in life.hope that helps.
smoke a joint, listen to suga free's street gospel album you'll be fixed right up