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I Gots A Serious Problem
WestCoasta:
just be yourself, sounds gay but it's true
nobody likes some asshole tryin to act all tight when you know he's not
I hate high energy dudes, they just look like fuckin tools
QuietTruth:
^ Good looks my dude! 8)
--- Quote from: RealCity's M-O-s-T on January 16, 2007, 10:51:03 PM ---Let me ask you this truth, As a kid and as a young man and maybe now does youre mom and has youre mom let you express yourself? I mean realy express how you feel wether yure sad, angry or simply agree or disagree with something. Try to truly think about that. I did some therapy last year it helped me figure out lots of things about myself and why im a certain way i.e anxiety, stressed.....its because my mom cuddled me too much as a kid and now everytime she tries to watch out for me i noticed it like she trying ot baby me ya dig?
Psychology makes a lot of sense sometimes. Try to thinik on this. You might think im crazy or wrong just try to look at it.
--- End quote ---
So it's all the parents, huh?
Wow, I would think you'd get stressed if your Ma DIDN'T cuddle you. Damn, that's interesting.
So, if my ma never hugged me or cuddled and shit, that'll make you unstressed? :D I'm stress free. ;D
Nah, just playin', good looks my main man.
TraceOneInfinite:
--- Quote from: QuietTruth on January 17, 2007, 11:11:30 AM ---^ Good looks my dude! 8)
--- Quote from: RealCity's M-O-s-T on January 16, 2007, 10:51:03 PM ---Let me ask you this truth, As a kid and as a young man and maybe now does youre mom and has youre mom let you express yourself? I mean realy express how you feel wether yure sad, angry or simply agree or disagree with something. Try to truly think about that. I did some therapy last year it helped me figure out lots of things about myself and why im a certain way i.e anxiety, stressed.....its because my mom cuddled me too much as a kid and now everytime she tries to watch out for me i noticed it like she trying ot baby me ya dig?
Psychology makes a lot of sense sometimes. Try to thinik on this. You might think im crazy or wrong just try to look at it.
--- End quote ---
So it's all the parents, huh?
Wow, I would think you'd get stressed if your Ma DIDN'T cuddle you. Damn, that's interesting.
So, if my ma never hugged me or cuddled and shit, that'll make you unstressed? :D I'm stress free. ;D
Nah, just playin', good looks my main man.
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That's funny, it reminds me of a line from one of my favorite movies, "Before Sunrise".
The main character, Ethan Hawke, he says, "Everybody's parents fucked them up, either their parents didn't give them enough attention, or they stayed around and taught them all the wrong things." lol
...anyway, RealCity, what you said about your mom not lettin you express yourself was interesting. So what have you done to counteract your condition?
MontrealCity's Most:
Its not so much she dint let me express myself it was juts more she cuddled a little too much what with my pops not being around and i pickmed up some of her tendicies. As a kid she used to always be like dont eat to fats youll get sick or wtahc out for this watch out for that were it kinda conditionned me to be a worisome kinda guy i worry a lot when i feeel sick.
Now i can pick up on it when she does just by observating and im sure sometimes i still dont pick it up.
I think that along with taking drugs in the past lead me to get amger issues, anxiety issues that lead to ful blown panic attacks.
I did tihs thing for anixtey and anger managment called Behavior modification therapy. You guys can look it up but basicly its just teaches out how to pick up negavtive reatcions youre body gets and how to think or act differently.
MontrealCity's Most:
I forgot to say this, So i watched lots of show on emotions, psychologies i find it intersting anyways. I learned that say you were a kid who was ignored or brushed off without knowing it you develop patterns. Theres a lot of em i dont even know them all ( im just a dude who watched some shows and done a lttle therapy ) lol butyou know if youre mom pissed you off brushed you off when you wanted to tell her something or felt sad or bad or angry now you might hold those inside without even knowing. YOu might not express yourself the right way becuase youve created these patterns, its not even a willing things its how youre ind developped.
Its not hopeless tho. Maybe you can read books about it or one day maybe you can go in some sort of group or therapy of you gots good insurance. Im thiking of going in a gorup myself to learn more and find uot more about myself, why not i think if everyone truly looked inside they self we would grow as a world but im getting outta hand here. Hell you might meet a cute looking honey at these group things or a milth ( thats what im shooting for) haha
peace homie.
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