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I Gots A Serious Problem
Mr. O:
--- Quote from: QuietTruth on January 05, 2007, 06:06:54 PM ---Now I know nobody wants to hear a niggas problem and I know there was a topic made about this just a few weeks ago but a nigga is in need deep.
Nobody likes to hear bitchin' and whinin' but a brother needs some help. And I don't wanna sound repetitive and I'm sorry that I'm gon do this again. I'm aware this ain't counseling or therapy, Lol, but any help is great.
When I'm out in public, or basicly away from my home out of my 'territory' the kid ain't social, ya know, at all. And it's gettin' to the point where I just can't fuckin' take it.
I went to the mall a lil while ago and walked into FootLocker and the girl who works there goes to my school and it was real weird becuz I was able to talk to her more than I was able to in school. But don't get it twisted it ain't the ladies I have a problem wit, it's just, I don't know, all people. It feels different when you crushin' a girl and talkin' to her becuz, I don't know, its just different, and anyways I'm sittin' there talkin' to the girl and I just can't do it 'right', like my social skill is low as possible. Now the problem is that in a few more weeks I'm gon be applyin' for FootLocker but if my social skill is low as fuck, how in the hell am I going to work there? Will that improve it or just makes it worse? That's what I'm dyin' to know.
It's like when I'm in school it's 'I don't give a fuck'. I don't socialize wit alot of other niggas. But when I get home and I'm outside it's like I'm regular, Lol. It's real weird.
Today the teacher was like sayin' 'Thank you, thank you' becuz I read out loud some shit for her to write down on the board. And I'm thinkin' this bitch is fuckin' crazy. Like she don't know me. Like the way I talk on here, dubcc, is how I do it at home and when I'm hangin' outside. And it's funny cuz if I was to meet any of ya'll in real life I wouldn't be quiet at all. Weird.
Don't get me wrong becuz I'm not this nerdy lil nigga who doesnt speak. I hang wit the tight niggas but I just am not 'loud'.
I apologize this is so fuckin' long but the nigga had to vent, Lol. I wanted ya'll to get an understanding cuz I just really really want to know when this will go away becuz I'm starting to get scurred. :-\
If you get what I'm sayin' please drop a lil sumtin'. I really appreciate it. Really I do.
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This problem is about you steppin' out of your own shell and explore many people. You need to improve communication though, IMHO.
swangin and bangin:
--- Quote from: pc8381 on January 17, 2007, 03:17:54 PM ---
--- Quote from: QuietTruth on January 05, 2007, 06:06:54 PM ---Now I know nobody wants to hear a niggas problem and I know there was a topic made about this just a few weeks ago but a nigga is in need deep.
Nobody likes to hear bitchin' and whinin' but a brother needs some help. And I don't wanna sound repetitive and I'm sorry that I'm gon do this again. I'm aware this ain't counseling or therapy, Lol, but any help is great.
When I'm out in public, or basicly away from my home out of my 'territory' the kid ain't social, ya know, at all. And it's gettin' to the point where I just can't fuckin' take it.
I went to the mall a lil while ago and walked into FootLocker and the girl who works there goes to my school and it was real weird becuz I was able to talk to her more than I was able to in school. But don't get it twisted it ain't the ladies I have a problem wit, it's just, I don't know, all people. It feels different when you crushin' a girl and talkin' to her becuz, I don't know, its just different, and anyways I'm sittin' there talkin' to the girl and I just can't do it 'right', like my social skill is low as possible. Now the problem is that in a few more weeks I'm gon be applyin' for FootLocker but if my social skill is low as fuck, how in the hell am I going to work there? Will that improve it or just makes it worse? That's what I'm dyin' to know.
It's like when I'm in school it's 'I don't give a fuck'. I don't socialize wit alot of other niggas. But when I get home and I'm outside it's like I'm regular, Lol. It's real weird.
Today the teacher was like sayin' 'Thank you, thank you' becuz I read out loud some shit for her to write down on the board. And I'm thinkin' this bitch is fuckin' crazy. Like she don't know me. Like the way I talk on here, dubcc, is how I do it at home and when I'm hangin' outside. And it's funny cuz if I was to meet any of ya'll in real life I wouldn't be quiet at all. Weird.
Don't get me wrong becuz I'm not this nerdy lil nigga who doesnt speak. I hang wit the tight niggas but I just am not 'loud'.
I apologize this is so fuckin' long but the nigga had to vent, Lol. I wanted ya'll to get an understanding cuz I just really really want to know when this will go away becuz I'm starting to get scurred. :-\
If you get what I'm sayin' please drop a lil sumtin'. I really appreciate it. Really I do.
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This problem is about you steppin' out of your own shell and explore many people. You need to improve communication though, IMHO.
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he wants to know
Trauma-san:
--- Quote from: QuietTruth on January 05, 2007, 06:06:54 PM ---Now I know nobody wants to hear a niggas problem and I know there was a topic made about this just a few weeks ago but a nigga is in need deep.
Nobody likes to hear bitchin' and whinin' but a brother needs some help. And I don't wanna sound repetitive and I'm sorry that I'm gon do this again. I'm aware this ain't counseling or therapy, Lol, but any help is great.
When I'm out in public, or basicly away from my home out of my 'territory' the kid ain't social, ya know, at all. And it's gettin' to the point where I just can't fuckin' take it.
I went to the mall a lil while ago and walked into FootLocker and the girl who works there goes to my school and it was real weird becuz I was able to talk to her more than I was able to in school. But don't get it twisted it ain't the ladies I have a problem wit, it's just, I don't know, all people. It feels different when you crushin' a girl and talkin' to her becuz, I don't know, its just different, and anyways I'm sittin' there talkin' to the girl and I just can't do it 'right', like my social skill is low as possible. Now the problem is that in a few more weeks I'm gon be applyin' for FootLocker but if my social skill is low as fuck, how in the hell am I going to work there? Will that improve it or just makes it worse? That's what I'm dyin' to know.
It's like when I'm in school it's 'I don't give a fuck'. I don't socialize wit alot of other niggas. But when I get home and I'm outside it's like I'm regular, Lol. It's real weird.
Today the teacher was like sayin' 'Thank you, thank you' becuz I read out loud some shit for her to write down on the board. And I'm thinkin' this bitch is fuckin' crazy. Like she don't know me. Like the way I talk on here, dubcc, is how I do it at home and when I'm hangin' outside. And it's funny cuz if I was to meet any of ya'll in real life I wouldn't be quiet at all. Weird.
Don't get me wrong becuz I'm not this nerdy lil nigga who doesnt speak. I hang wit the tight niggas but I just am not 'loud'.
I apologize this is so fuckin' long but the nigga had to vent, Lol. I wanted ya'll to get an understanding cuz I just really really want to know when this will go away becuz I'm starting to get scurred. :-\
If you get what I'm sayin' please drop a lil sumtin'. I really appreciate it. Really I do.
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Sounds to me like just general anxiety. A couple suggestions and just words of advice I would give you are the following...
- It sounds like you may not fully realize yet how basically human everybody from you to a baby to George Bush is. All humans go through the same issues and have the same emotions and complicated thought processes, maybe just at different times.... I'm only saying this to remind you that while you may be scared of how you feel, in reality it's nothing to be scared of, just part of the human existance. Everybody alive has had anxiety in different forms in their life.
- When you're in an uncomfortable situation, just remember that the person you're talking to is no more or less important than you are... just relax, and be yourself. Don't front and try to be some one-sided caricature. What I mean by that is sometimes when people meet other people they want to appear a certain way. From the get-go, you're showing yourself as shallow and one sided, because you're only portraying that side that you want that person to see. Instead of seeing a great attribute in your character, they only see you acting out one facet of a character and it looks unnatural even if they don't consciously notice it.
For instance, say you walk into the store and start chatting that chick up and you're trying to get her number or something. You're really concerned that you look smart to her, so you keep going on and on trying to appear intelligent. Instead of seeing you as "man, this guy's smart!" she's going to think you're weird because all you're doing is things that prop up that attribute that you're trying to convey.... a natural person doesn't appear in 1 dimension when they talk to people, they have several dimensions all acting at the same time and that's what truly gives someone character and charisma. Character and charisma are ultimately what souls are attracted to. You've likely never met or enjoyed the company of someone (unless it was just a sexy girl) who's character and charisma you didn't admire.
Trauma-san:
--- Quote from: da pink panther - next years rookiie of da year on January 05, 2007, 06:53:01 PM ---damn doggie dat sounds rough no homo
but yo peep dis if u meetin sum1 new n u dunno them den they dunno u either rite? so u aint gotta b trippin wut dey think of u or nuthin like dat cuz dey prolly worried bout da same thing witchu so u jus gota start thinkin like damn im a muhfuckin champ all these other muhfuckas r jus a buncha squares who would love 2 meet n talk 2 a nigga like me n u jus talk 2 em like ur way 2 fly 4 em but still b nice no need 2 b cocky no homo jus b coo n if its a bitch den u talk 2 her like damn im doin dis bitch a favor by lettin her even talk 2 a fly muhfucka like me ya feel me? but like dont b hella cocky n shit no1 likes dat jus b chill n dont like say shit dat aint ur character jus b urself but jus b confident think 2 urself that theire prolly hella shy rite now talkin 2 u n dat ur tryin 2 make dem comfortable dat way ull jus start comin off smooth n confident ya smell me?
aite now go look in da mirror n tell urself dat ur a muhfuckin champ n dat all these hoes r jus dumb bitches who would love 2 talk 2 a nigga like u n dat all these other muhfuckas u meet r prolly a buncha squares n ur hella coo so dey da 1s dat r prolly hella nervous n if u need a plan b while u talk 2 em jus think 2 urself dat damn dat motherfucka is prolly hella insecure cuz he got a little ass dick n my shit is hella big so i got no reason 2 b shy he does
get em doggie
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No offense, man, but I honestly am too white to understand a fucking thing you just said. This is the first post, EVER, in 10 years on this board that I actually couldn't even comprehend. I mean usually if I don't like somebody or something somebody said, it's because I just think they're stupid or whatever... but your post, I actually physically and mentally cannot even tell what the hell you are talking about. You could have written "agev sersv a s eaeegbae eeff bearetaa" and it would have made more sense to me, because I would assume it was a different language. Yours appears to be English, I just don't have enough soul to pick it out, I guess, lol.
QuietTruth:
Trauma-san, thank you homie. I appreciate your post!
I thought anxiety means when you worry to much. Are you sayin' that's what I got cuz that's werid?
See, the thing is, I've been soaking up all this shit but you know, when you a cat who's known to be a lil more laid back and 'keeps to themselves friendly', it's got going to be good when you just come out of nowhere and start being 'you'. Then it's just more un wanted attention. You know what I'm saying?
Then you get stomped with the questions..Why you never talked?...and ya know all that shit.
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