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shyness
Cheese:
Yup there's a big difference between shyness and introversion. Shy persons commonly desire friendships and social interactions, but are held back by their insecurities and fears. Consequently, they avoid the spotlight and face-to-face interaction and ruminate excessively after conversations, worrying about whether they said the right things, made a good impression, or sounded stupid. Shy people doesn't necessarily need to be introverts. Introverts prefer to be alone; they enjoy peace and quiet of solitude. Shy people, on the other hand, want to have contact with other, to be socially involved, and have contacts. Shyness is often being called social anxtiety by psychologists.
ow and btw, a lot of people actually rate themselves more introvert than they actually are.
AboveTheLaw:
There's a line from 'The Way of Chuang Tzu'
"Those who know do not speak, those who speak do not know"
Still it's equally frustrating when dealing with someone who is extremely extroverted and doesn't know when to shut up, just as being around those introverts who don't do or say anything at all. As long as you know when and how to assert yourself that's all that matters really.
when it rains it pours:
--- Quote from: 100% Trill on February 11, 2008, 08:22:34 AM ---There's a line from 'The Way of Chuang Tzu'
"Those who know do not speak, those who speak do not know"
Still it's equally frustrating when dealing with someone who is extremely extroverted and doesn't know when to shut up, just as being around those introverts who don't do or say anything at all. As long as you know when and how to assert yourself that's all that matters really.
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thats a good quote. im gona put it in my sig box.
thanks
Bch:
^^ you guys need help
"those who know do not speak, those who speak do not know?" ?? ok, what about teachers.. and even before they started off as teachers they had to find a love for teaching people knowledge
to those who say they dont like small talk... have u guys ever held down a job?? macked to a girl?? its essential you learn small talk..
you can make small talk entertaining depending on your personality Lol if im at the dmv and if your sitting next to me and im like damn homie ima turn into a skull and a bag of bones waitin in this muthafucka
its easy , i suggest you work on your mouthpeice and people skills you have to read people accordingly... game
when it rains it pours:
--- Quote from: NauticaICE on February 11, 2008, 09:09:35 AM ---^^ you guys need help
"those who know do not speak, those who speak do not know?" ?? ok, what about teachers.. and even before they started off as teachers they had to find a love for teaching people knowledge
to those who say they dont like small talk... have u guys ever held down a job?? macked to a girl?? its essential you learn small talk..
you can make small talk entertaining depending on your personality Lol if im at the dmv and if your sitting next to me and im like damn homie ima turn into a skull and a bag of bones waitin in this muthafucka
its easy , i suggest you work on your mouthpeice and people skills you have to read people accordingly... game
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it all depends on who you are. its easy for some people and harder for other people. if im at the DMV and some one says something like that to me i would just laugh and think in my head "yo STFU and leave me alone", but if some one asked me for the time i would let them know and not mind it. it is what it is. people are different, thats a good thing.
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