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There's a line from 'The Way of Chuang Tzu'"Those who know do not speak, those who speak do not know"Still it's equally frustrating when dealing with someone who is extremely extroverted and doesn't know when to shut up, just as being around those introverts who don't do or say anything at all. As long as you know when and how to assert yourself that's all that matters really.
^^ you guys need help"those who know do not speak, those who speak do not know?" ?? ok, what about teachers.. and even before they started off as teachers they had to find a love for teaching people knowledge to those who say they dont like small talk... have u guys ever held down a job?? macked to a girl?? its essential you learn small talk.. you can make small talk entertaining depending on your personality Lol if im at the dmv and if your sitting next to me and im like damn homie ima turn into a skull and a bag of bones waitin in this muthafucka its easy , i suggest you work on your mouthpeice and people skills you have to read people accordingly... game
yea i feel what your saying ma dude different stokes for different folks.. most people when stuck at a place like that make small talk to make the most of a situation its just real random like im sittin at the dmv or some shit and im wearin a laker or clipper jersey somebody would be like how the lakers do last night? shyness/confidence/self esteem problems can be overcome its happened for alot of people.. especially in the entertainment industry where you gotta get up in front of alotta people and sing/rap/dance perform u dont know how many ppl ive met even gangsters first time tryin to rap they be embarrassed and gotta drink in order to rap but as time goes on you develop confidence speaking out in public to the public
Quote from: NauticaICE on February 07, 2008, 08:38:15 AMlack of self confidence.. That's the root... When you're shy, you act unsure. You avoid everyday situations that may make you feel uncomfortable. Shy people do not feel comfortable around people they don't know, nor do they reach out to get to know them. It all boils down to not being confident in yourself. Feeling as if others are going to laugh at you or that you're going to say something stupid... or whatever.Fear of rejection, insecurity and low-self-esteem are all factors of lack of self confidence.
lack of self confidence..
^ Honestly, you gotta be the first nigga that's introverted with a personality.
Quote from: QuietTruth on February 10, 2008, 06:32:12 PM^ Honestly, you gotta be the first nigga that's introverted with a personality. WTF are you going on about, dude?
I'm terrified about the amount of rationalisation going on here.