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I told her I couldn't do it... She understood. I still kinda feel bad, though.Quote from: Don Seer on June 22, 2008, 01:46:00 AMi wouldnt help her if her man already owes money.. they still together? does he know...? ... maybe it was his idea to tap you up for cash..what does your own girl think NIK?Her man knows, and yes, they're still together...they're always havin fights and shit. My girl has mixed feelings about the whole situation...she definitely thinks the girl needs to ge an abortion, though.
i wouldnt help her if her man already owes money.. they still together? does he know...? ... maybe it was his idea to tap you up for cash..what does your own girl think NIK?
Alright, here's the story... So a few days ago, my homies girlfriend (18 years old) told me she had an important question for me, which was gunna be very difficult for her to ask... She called me up yesterday and found the courage to tell me that she was pregnant and that she wasn't physically, mentally, or financially ready to have a baby. She wants absolutely no one to find out about this. Now, the girl is broke as fuck, no job, no income...nothing, so she asked if I could lend her $390 for an abortion. I asked her when she'd be able to pay me back, and she said it'd be a few months (keep in mind, she still needs to get a job and what not). Anyways, I told her I'd get back to her and now I'm pretty stuck on what to say/do. On one hand, I think it would be nice to lend a helping hand, sort of a good deed, if you may. On the other hand, I think she fucked up and should learn how to take responsibility in life...also, I dunno how I feel about my money going towards killing a baby. Another thing...Her man owes me 120 bux. I lent it to him a couple month ago, and he was gunna pay me back in a timely manner, like he usually does, but he ended up getting fired from his job...so now he's been stuck financially and I'm still waiting on my payback from his ass.What would you do in this situation? I don't wanna be fucked up, but I also don't wanna take the bullet for someone elses mistakes. Any opinions on this matter are appreciated...PeACe
Quote from: Now_I_Know on June 22, 2008, 10:42:36 AMI told her I couldn't do it... She understood. I still kinda feel bad, though.Quote from: Don Seer on June 22, 2008, 01:46:00 AMi wouldnt help her if her man already owes money.. they still together? does he know...? ... maybe it was his idea to tap you up for cash..what does your own girl think NIK?Her man knows, and yes, they're still together...they're always havin fights and shit. My girl has mixed feelings about the whole situation...she definitely thinks the girl needs to ge an abortion, though. nigga never feel bad.thats more money to spend on the "Boston Celtics 2007-08 Champions" DVD and some Cali chron chron
Dude I think it can be free with her situation. Tell her to call up planned parenthood. I had a friend's girl get an abortion for free. And she was 18.