Author Topic: I need your opinions on this...  (Read 315 times)

Johnny B

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I need your opinions on this...
« on: July 27, 2008, 04:19:30 AM »
ok, so my friend just started going out with this girl about a month ago. I guess she used to be a whore when she didn't respect herself and used to give in to guys, even her guy friends. anyway, she changed her ways about 5 months ago, and when she did, her 3 guy friends were pissed (the ones she had sex with constantly). now, these 3 dudes had girlfriends and still fucked around with her. I guess they used to just grab her and throw her on the bed and get it on. she never wanted to mention this to him either, but he wanted to know about her past. the thing about this is that his g/f said that she felt like trash even discussing it with him, but he just told her not to hang out with those guys anymore or he's done with her. she thought he didn't trust her, but he doesn't trust those guys. I guess she considers these guys nice guys deep down and says they're fun to hang out with. oh yea, nice guys huh? cheating on their girl with you?! getting mad when they know you won't fuck them anymore?! wow, nicest guys I've heard of, and they're her friends?!

do you think he should let his girl still hang out with these guys or not?
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smegma

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Re: I need your opinions on this...
« Reply #1 on: July 27, 2008, 04:23:16 AM »
If he stays with her I'd say there's a very big chance he will get his feelings hurt. Your friend's problem is that he is in love with her.
 

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Re: I need your opinions on this...
« Reply #2 on: July 27, 2008, 04:35:17 AM »
 

Chief

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Re: I need your opinions on this...
« Reply #3 on: July 27, 2008, 05:27:11 AM »
if you cant trust her, leave her... just the other night i was out with my friend and her bf is a jelous prick, fun fun.
 

Elevz

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Re: I need your opinions on this...
« Reply #4 on: July 27, 2008, 06:04:40 AM »
do you think he should let his girl still hang out with these guys or not?

If you're going to have to put restrictions on someone's behavior in order to keep them in line, there's something fundamentally wrong, beyond the question itself. You should never tell someone who they can't hang out with. If this chick can't keep herself straight, damn sure your friend must hate himself if he still loves her regardless of all that. Like mauz said: the problem is that he loves her in the first place. The blame's on him for not judging her appropriately. He will get his feelings hurt, but let's just hope it'll be a lesson well learned. All you can do is warn him.
 

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Re: I need your opinions on this...
« Reply #5 on: July 27, 2008, 10:17:10 AM »
The girl's in fault here, once she's a hoe, she'll stay that way for good.

Can't turn a hoe into a housewife and what not.
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Nigga_With_An_Additude

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« Reply #6 on: July 27, 2008, 11:36:29 AM »
a.she probally will fuck them
b.she'll get saved
c.the lil kids from her new pregnany will be on here and call themselves noiw I know
 

Johnny B

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Re: I need your opinions on this...
« Reply #7 on: July 27, 2008, 12:07:47 PM »
do you think he should let his girl still hang out with these guys or not?

If you're going to have to put restrictions on someone's behavior in order to keep them in line, there's something fundamentally wrong, beyond the question itself. You should never tell someone who they can't hang out with. If this chick can't keep herself straight, damn sure your friend must hate himself if he still loves her regardless of all that. Like mauz said: the problem is that he loves her in the first place. The blame's on him for not judging her appropriately. He will get his feelings hurt, but let's just hope it'll be a lesson well learned. All you can do is warn him.

I agree, but the bitch was telling him repeatedly to trust her because she isn't like that anymore and would never betray him. I remember him saying how she got all nervous about what to tell her friends, but idk. the blame is on both sides here.
 

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« Reply #8 on: July 27, 2008, 12:26:03 PM »
The Ho just needs to decide whats more  important. Bottom Line

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Johnny B

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Re: I need your opinions on this...
« Reply #10 on: July 27, 2008, 12:45:30 PM »
The Ho just needs to decide whats more  important. Bottom Line

exactly. the question is, how can she associate with idiots who used to take full advantage of her? she needs to let go.
 

WestCoasta

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« Reply #11 on: July 27, 2008, 12:51:11 PM »
^  she loves it

this guy needs to let her do her thing

if she's gonna cheat she's gonna cheat, what's the point of watching her all the time

and if he can't trust her like that then what is he with her for?
 

Elevz

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Re: I need your opinions on this...
« Reply #12 on: July 27, 2008, 12:52:29 PM »
The Ho just needs to decide whats more  important. Bottom Line

exactly. the question is, how can she associate with idiots who used to take full advantage of her? she needs to let go.

She needs to realize that herself.
 

Johnny B

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« Reply #13 on: July 27, 2008, 01:03:26 PM »
^  she loves it

this guy needs to let her do her thing

if she's gonna cheat she's gonna cheat, what's the point of watching her all the time

and if he can't trust her like that then what is he with her for?

how can he let her do her thing? it's not a matter of jealousy. he's concerned and disappointed. this bitch is fucked in the head and it's gonna be a process. there's no excuse as to why she should still talk to these guys.
 

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Re: I need your opinions on this...
« Reply #14 on: July 27, 2008, 01:24:53 PM »
either he's into checking the bitch or he's not

if she's going to hang out with these guys when he doesn't want her to, why are they in a relationship?

if she's fucked in the head and doesn't know whether to screw 3 guys at once or what, then this couple is in trouble

your friend is wasting his time, he's gonna think back on all the effort he put into some bullshit that obviously the broad cares nothing about

typical sucker... probably a nice guy, but he looks like a dope