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yea, last year I got my heart broken by my first love. I never felt that way for anyone, ever. it was shocking and disappointing, but it's all good now.it's some crazy shit and takes a bit to get over, but u get stronger cuz of it. the more obstacles u face, the more lessons u learn.u get wiser and learn a lotta shit like .:DaYg0sTyLz:. said.
Quote from: Dennis Haysbert on October 10, 2008, 06:53:51 AMjesus guys thats for the words of wisdomglad to help Naw, but where are u goin with this thread? Just taking a poll....or did u just get your heart broken? For me, yah i have. I admit it. It was when I was younger though. High School shit. First love kinda thing u know? And she was a BAD ass Black/Filipina bitc....naw i aint goan call her out like that lol. But real shit, having your heart broken at least once can be a good thing. It opens your eyes, and you learn alot from that shit.
jesus guys thats for the words of wisdom
Quote from: Johnny B on October 10, 2008, 01:10:13 PMyea, last year I got my heart broken by my first love. I never felt that way for anyone, ever. it was shocking and disappointing, but it's all good now.it's some crazy shit and takes a bit to get over, but u get stronger cuz of it. the more obstacles u face, the more lessons u learn.u get wiser and learn a lotta shit like .:DaYg0sTyLz:. said. awwww u got your heart broken...seriously...ARE YOU A FAG?
Yes, I've had my heart broken a couple times really badly. I think especially when your younger and you first fall in love it hurts the most when you lose it. Like when I was 14, summer of 96 I was on top of the world, my girlfriend was living across the street (even the window to her room was directly across from mine) from me and we spent the whole summer together. I wouldn't have traded my life with anyone. Her parents were divorced, and at the end of the summer she moved back to her mom's home in another state and never returned. My whole life fell apart after that, one thing after another and highschool was miserable for me. Things began to change for me finally after highschool but I really didn't have any clue how to understand and handle the things I was going through. .......................................And what's with the replies? We need more opening up at this forum.Some people saying "slit the bitches throat"... what kind of shit is that?Nobody is obligated to be with anybody. Unless you guys want to create a society where your parents pick who u marry and u can never divorce, maybe you guys would like that?No, its a free market, love is a free and open market. If she thinks she can be happier somewhere else then who the fuck are you to force her to be where she is unhappy? That's bullshit.Its no different than going to the supermarket. If you go to the supermarket and they don't provide you with what you want, then you will go to another supermarket. So if you want to be successful in love you don't do it by slitting your customers throats, you do it by finding your niche in the market (people who appreciate you for what you are) and then providing your customers with what they want.
And yes I have. It fucking sucks, feels like it's never going to go away. You gotta try and look at the bright side, like what was it that made it not work and learn from it. I'm a sucker from hell for a pretty face and usually get blinded by the light, know what I'm sayin? If you're looking for some long term shit, u really gotta be friends with that person, share the same interests, be able have intelligent convo, and be on the same path in life. If all those things are congruent you can avoid getting your heart broken.If you find yourself having to change something about yourself, and you're not truly ready to make that change, it will fuck things up.Those are the things I've learned as a result.
Quote from: Poppa Large on October 15, 2008, 03:08:03 AMAnd yes I have. It fucking sucks, feels like it's never going to go away. You gotta try and look at the bright side, like what was it that made it not work and learn from it. I'm a sucker from hell for a pretty face and usually get blinded by the light, know what I'm sayin? If you're looking for some long term shit, u really gotta be friends with that person, share the same interests, be able have intelligent convo, and be on the same path in life. If all those things are congruent you can avoid getting your heart broken.If you find yourself having to change something about yourself, and you're not truly ready to make that change, it will fuck things up.Those are the things I've learned as a result.true words right there. I'll share my story from this summer about a girl I was hanging around with that I felt was trying to lead me on in a way. We used to hang out and talk all the time at the beginning of the summer. She comes over to my house one night we end up having some drinks and she spends the night, well I confront her straight up because there was a rumor going around that she was trying to play me, plus she has a rep for trying to fuck with guys heads. She looks right in my eyes and says "I promise I'm not trying to play you" and then we continue making out. Two nights later I call her to hang out again she doesn't answer and fuckin sends a text saying that she is in love with my little cousin. So I have to witness them two together all summer. Bitches can be just plain heartless man. I wouldn't let it bother you too much I wasn't really even mad because it was so scandalous and immature. The crazy thing is I still talk to this broad if her intentions were to get the best of me I'm trying to prove to her that she can't do it. Keep treating people how you would want to be treated and you will get it someday.
holy shit Bez wrote a fuckin essay.anyways to answer the thread starter, yes, and it feels like it will never go away, and i can't say that it does but it will become more bearable. worst part about it is that the other side couldn't give a fuck about what you're going through