It's May 11, 2024, 07:08:37 AM
i find a LOT of people i know/have known start to behave differently when getting serious with a girl. it's almost like they can't be themselves 100% so they present themselves differently to different people. now this might just be in public or whatnot but i think men in general have a lot of INSECURITIES ABOUT THEIR OWN CHARACTERS. they are too scared to show their softer side most of the time and have to over compensate by being too soft when around their women.i believe in being straight up 100% and not having this character shift when around people of the opposite sex or whatever. you should be comfortable with yourself all the time, no major efforts to go one way or the other and conceal your feelings.for example i have friends who can look me in the eye and tell me how much they love their girl etc and be completely straight about it and their emotions in general. other people have this macho complex and will refer to their girls physical qualities or whatever. i think you have to be comfortable with who you are deep down - that is generally guys biggest insecurity. another thing that links into that is BEING UNSURE about things. just because you don't have all the answers to life does not make you inferior in any way. guys can tend to have problems keeping an open mind. i would link this to insecurities about character and knowing who you are deep down again. i think men feel pressured by society to know whats what for themselves and form formulate concrete world views from role models or whatever when in today's world its better to keep an open mind, ask questions of things, learn and grow continuously.anyone agree with any of that?
dude you're a retardmost people are more stable when theyre in a relationship, thats the whole point of 'settling down'
Quote from: Chief on December 29, 2008, 11:14:50 AMdude you're a retardmost people are more stable when theyre in a relationship, thats the whole point of 'settling down'ummmm..... settling down is for people who have sewn their wild oats and are now, finally, ready to settle down....And dude, if you're not stable by yourself, then you're not gunna be stable in a relationship..... do the names Ike & Tina mean anything to you?NO...?How 'bout OJ & Nicole?No...?Ok, ok, how about K Fedd & Britney...?point is dude, when two unstable people get together, they don't make each other stable, they make both of their problems worse...Two wrongs don't make a right....