It's May 14, 2024, 06:56:18 PM
actually i JUST went threw this i started talkin 2 another girl and i got over my X that i was n love with and now im with this other girl so it wasnt that hard and when i had her i thought i dont think i could get over her EVEr and well just keep ur mind off her and go out and find another girl 4 real
Time heals all wounds. If you are a religious man, then just take the knowledge that God didn't intend for you to be with this one. And if you stay open to his plan, you'll find the one he's set aside for you, and that love will be 100 times better than the one you just lost. Trust me, I'm speaking from experince. You just gotta be open to his plan... you'll find better, AND it'll help you to cope with your loss right now.
Quote from: The Big Bad Ass on February 05, 2003, 07:33:22 PMTime heals all wounds. If you are a religious man, then just take the knowledge that God didn't intend for you to be with this one. And if you stay open to his plan, you'll find the one he's set aside for you, and that love will be 100 times better than the one you just lost. Trust me, I'm speaking from experince. You just gotta be open to his plan... you'll find better, AND it'll help you to cope with your loss right now. Thanks a lot man...I appreciate those words...Especially the part about God not intending me to be with her, because she was black, and I knew that sooner or later I would have to get rid of her...I definently can't marry a black girl, unless I wanted to be looked down upon greatly by my family...Plus my parents wouldnt let me go places with her, and really begged me every day to stop talking to her...I dunno man...This shit is too much on me...To tell ya'll the truth, this is the first girl i really got sexual with...we were going to have sex twice (on her request), but the first time her parents came home when we were about to do it, and the second time I only had one condom, and it was expired...I dunno man...shit is just tough as fuck...Today at school she was just back hugging on her ex like she used to hug me, but even more...It's just real painfull...We don't even talk anymore...Whatever though...I wont be seeing her for like a week, cuz shes visiting Ohio today...Maybe that will help...Hopefully...PeACe
Quote from: Now_I_Know on February 05, 2003, 07:54:14 PMQuote from: The Big Bad Ass on February 05, 2003, 07:33:22 PMTime heals all wounds. If you are a religious man, then just take the knowledge that God didn't intend for you to be with this one. And if you stay open to his plan, you'll find the one he's set aside for you, and that love will be 100 times better than the one you just lost. Trust me, I'm speaking from experince. You just gotta be open to his plan... you'll find better, AND it'll help you to cope with your loss right now. Thanks a lot man...I appreciate those words...Especially the part about God not intending me to be with her, because she was black, and I knew that sooner or later I would have to get rid of her...I definently can't marry a black girl, unless I wanted to be looked down upon greatly by my family...Plus my parents wouldnt let me go places with her, and really begged me every day to stop talking to her...I dunno man...This shit is too much on me...To tell ya'll the truth, this is the first girl i really got sexual with...we were going to have sex twice (on her request), but the first time her parents came home when we were about to do it, and the second time I only had one condom, and it was expired...I dunno man...shit is just tough as fuck...Today at school she was just back hugging on her ex like she used to hug me, but even more...It's just real painfull...We don't even talk anymore...Whatever though...I wont be seeing her for like a week, cuz shes visiting Ohio today...Maybe that will help...Hopefully...PeACeay u shouldnt let yur parents decide who u date. they should accept her, if she makez u happy. Jus my opinion...