I Dont Understand It...

[Don Breezio]

ok...i've never ever had any self confidence. i always took crap in school up to my senior year because i was fat. then i lost weight in my senior year (a shit load of weight) and all the hot girls started noticing me. but it never ever gave me any confidence. people have been telling me for months that i should get some confidence but i havent had any to ask girls out and whatnot. then all of the sudden i have this huge burst of confidence and have asked 2 girls (1 for a phone number and one out) and i havent been turned down. i dont get why all the sudden i have a lot of confidence. but fuck confidence pays off.

[JTSimon]

  coo










New Year Resolution 1 : Don't point out how stupid/lame people are.

[CRAFTY]

That's cool for you man.

[Bramsterdam (see ya)]

right on!
good for you

[bez]

.....don't come on here boasting about how great you are when we all know your just a stupid fatty boy.

lol only playin man.

[Suga Foot]

confidence is like #1 when your tryin to get girls.  

[white Boy]

confidence is like #1 when your tryin to get girls.  

thats so true, ask any girl, the 1 thing the love is confidence,

[IKON]

 

[Da WCC Hopar!]

 

[ecrazy]

Good 4 you Luke

I was kinda the same way, i hooked up with girls here and there, but never actually asked a girl out or been for a girl for a real relationship till my senior year....I always thought they were too good for me, but it aint always the case, sometimes you just gotta grow some balls and do what feels right to ya

[LAZY]

well me i always got girls but never made moves til my girl came up about a year ago and i got her 2 start to like me and i went for it cuz shes fine as fuck, good as personality basiclly the perfect girl 4 me and where goin on a year strong

[Trauma-san]

Luke it's probably just becuase you're getting older.  It's not really that you have a lack of confidence or an abundance of confidence.


In my situation, when I was younger, I was self-conscious about what others thought of me.  As a result, I wasn't really myself around other people, and tried to act how I thought people wanted me to.  Or tried to fit in I guess.  In High School, I started feeling contempt against many of the other students, and basically didn't give a shit what they thought of me.  As a result, I had all kinds of hot girls that were mesmerized by me, ha.  I wasn't really all that good looking or cool or anything, it's just that I was an individual and didn't really care if people liked me or not, I was who I am, people could like it or not, I didn't care.  

I imagine you're just growing older, and you've matured... you don't really care what people think about you as much, so you don't care if the girls reject you as much.  Also, of course, there is a little bit involved with the weight.  You probably realize yourself that you look much better now.

[Now_Im_Not_Banned]

 I wasn't really all that good looking

Didn't you once say you were like the best looking guy alive?

[Don Breezio]

 I wasn't really all that good looking

Didn't you once say you were like the best looking guy alive?

i seem to remember that thread too...trauma talking about how girls jump all over him because he's the hottest guy around or some shit.

btw...i think you're right trauma...its probably the combo of growing older and my friends & colleagues talking me up.

[bez]

You must just have a Cool Hand Luke!