Author Topic: how do you get over jealousy?  (Read 815 times)

Don Breezio

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how do you get over jealousy?
« on: February 21, 2004, 08:32:46 PM »
my girlfriend is going to go hang out w/ this dude on monday...now i trust her and actually i dont feel jealous...but its not monday yet...and usually i do get very jealous...so just in case...how do you guys handle jealousy?
 

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Re:how do you get over jealousy?
« Reply #1 on: February 21, 2004, 08:36:12 PM »
You just grow up and get a realistic view of the world around you.  Girls run into guys.  If your girl wanted to cheat on you, she wouldn't let you know she's going to hang with somebody monday.  There's realistically no difference in her having guy friends or meeting some guy on the street, if she was going to cheat, she would.  You have to just trust her and take it at face value like that.  I used to get really jealous, then realized how unfair and stupid that was.  It's really an immature emotion... You also have to realize that the girl is every bit as important as yourself, to herself, at least, and just use the old adage treat her like you would want to be treated.  I thought I'd always have a problem with jealousy, but I've completely eradicated it, I don't feel jealous in the least anymore.  
 

Cold187umKilla

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Re:how do you get over jealousy?
« Reply #2 on: February 21, 2004, 08:53:37 PM »
get out and get something
« Last Edit: February 21, 2004, 08:53:57 PM by Cold187umKilla »
 

SGV

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Re:how do you get over jealousy?
« Reply #3 on: February 21, 2004, 09:08:24 PM »
You put away your female qualities and man the fuck up. Jealousy is a female thing, if you're confident in yourself, you ain't got shit to worry about. If you layin' the pipe correctly, she ain't doing nothing but kickin' with homie. You get jealous and she has control over you. You'll never recover from that.

So man up.
 

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Re:how do you get over jealousy?
« Reply #4 on: February 21, 2004, 09:26:38 PM »
get out

You should take your own advice AG. ;D
 

Cold187umKilla

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Re:how do you get over jealousy?
« Reply #5 on: February 21, 2004, 10:00:08 PM »
get out

You should take your own advice AG. ;D
would u get off my nutz already and im not AG and what i said was a quote from BG Knocc Out & Drestas song Jealousy
« Last Edit: February 21, 2004, 10:00:50 PM by Cold187umKilla »
 

The Watcher

Re:how do you get over jealousy?
« Reply #6 on: February 21, 2004, 10:18:41 PM »
im with SGV on this, man the fuck up. if its gonna happen, its gonna happen.
 

Don Breezio

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Re:how do you get over jealousy?
« Reply #7 on: February 21, 2004, 11:23:28 PM »
wow lol...you guys are totally right...thanks trauma...you made the most sense...although SGV's very blunt way of saying it ("Man the fuck up") helped a lot too...i actually was very jealous about an hour ago when i found out this dude is actually an ex boyfriend...it'll probably take some time for me to get over the whole jealousy thing...but i think you guys helped a lot. so thanks.
 

Now_Im_Not_Banned

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Re:how do you get over jealousy?
« Reply #8 on: February 22, 2004, 12:52:01 AM »
i actually was very jealous about an hour ago when i found out this dude is actually an ex boyfriend...



Now you have every right to be jealous...
 

Suga Foot

Re:how do you get over jealousy?
« Reply #9 on: February 22, 2004, 01:03:27 AM »
Just don't give a fuck.
 

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Re:how do you get over jealousy?
« Reply #10 on: February 22, 2004, 02:19:08 AM »
I'd only be Jealous if she had a history of cheating, and you looking to be about 14 and her about 19 doesn't help haha JP :P, be confident in her and yourself, tell her straight up that you trust her and you know nothing will happen and everything'll be alright
 

Wild_Elmo

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Re:how do you get over jealousy?
« Reply #11 on: February 22, 2004, 08:41:14 AM »
NEVER TRUST A FEMALE, I'M SERIOUS, SOME OF Y'ALL GONNA FIND THAT OUT ONE OF THESE DAYS
 

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Re:how do you get over jealousy?
« Reply #12 on: February 22, 2004, 08:44:53 AM »
Yo if u know her that well and she knows you that well..trust shudnt be a problem bro..thats all im saying....girsl always run into guys....i mean u cant be protectin her from all the male population now can ya? just chillax dude.. 8)
 

JTSimon

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Re:how do you get over jealousy?
« Reply #13 on: February 22, 2004, 09:13:19 AM »
lol Luke...you just look smart  ;D
 

bez

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Re:how do you get over jealousy?
« Reply #14 on: February 22, 2004, 09:29:12 AM »
just look at it from a mature point of view.  Its all about trust man, if she trusts you, you shud trust her.